I know what it feels like to feel stuck, and depressed. Back in October 2016 I was shut down and miserable. I knew there were things I wanted to do with my life, but didn’t know what. I was frustrated with trying to parent my children and not getting much headway. I had a counselor that asked me what I dreamed about and I had no idea who I was so I couldn’t tell him. but since that session, I began to dream. And it led me in the most amazing places. Looking back I am so grateful for the challenges that have happened in my life, the people I have met, and the experiences I have had. These past few years have been filled with ups and downs, risks and failures, and a whole lot of living.

Since 2016 I have:

  • Studied to acquire a second bachelors degree in Music Education December 2020

  • Recorded an EP Album 2019 and another single 2022

  • Started a blog at jburningham.com

  • Created on my YouTube Channel, Facebook and Instagram platform.

  • Found peace and contentment with meditation and time in nature

  • Worked out every morning at 5 am

  • Made extraordinary friendships on and offline

  • Taken lessons in guitar, piano, voice, violin/viola, percussion, horn, trumpet, flute and clarinet

  • Taught music The Madeline Choir School and currently teach twice a week at Wasatch Elementary

I feel challenged but not overwhelmed. I know how to overcome anything I currently face. My husband has been an amazing support. I am grateful for weekly date nights on the weekends and going hiking together in the hills. We have so much fun!

My kids have amazed me as well. In my journey they had to make adjustments when I couldn’t be there and stepped up to be responsible and helpful to each other. I have found empowerment as a parent, keeping agreements with my children. They have a sense of ownership and fairness, which helps them relax and be their best selves. I try to let them manage themselves and make decisions that are good for them within reason.  Consistency and follow through have been my allies. I no longer feel like the helpless mother my kids ignore. I feel more calm and centered. I feel like I have my life back.

How I love my life. I never could have thought it possible to do all that I have done these past years, but here I am. I am grateful for the faith, hope and confidence I feel for the future. I look back with awe and amazement. I am thankful for the lessons learned and strength gained.  I have felt personal growth, peace, drive and belief that I can do it and that I will be guided and figure it out whatever it is. I could not have done it without help, for which I am most grateful.

I don’t say any of these things to brag. Only to say, my dear friend, if I can do all of these things, I know I can help you find your passions and help you grow in profound ways to have a wonderful life! May this next year also be amazing for all of us. I have no doubt the future holds wonderful possibilities. And I can’t wait to work together!